The Unexpecte​d Gift

When I was 10 years old, I learned that traditions will change, come to an end, or begin. They would change not because I was getting older or living in different cities, but because of events in life that can change our family. The Christmas of 1999 was the first Christmas after my grandfather’s stroke,Continue reading “The Unexpecte​d Gift”

What Dementia Can Not Destroy

Every Sunday I scroll through the obituary pages. I hold my breath as I follow the list and pray I don’t recognize a name. I breathe a sigh of relief when I get to the bottom and I didn’t recognize a name, or, like what has happened a few Sundays in a row, my heartContinue reading “What Dementia Can Not Destroy”

A Starting List-What To Do?

Each time someone learns that I am a Dementia and Creative Engagement Specialist, someone will tell me their personal story of dementia. I will learn their grandma had Lewy Body Dementia, or of their mom having early-onset Alzheimer’s, or their grandfather has Vascular Dementia. Not once have I shared my work without someone sharing withContinue reading “A Starting List-What To Do?”

Simple Joys

As family and friends of someone with dementia sometimes the simplest of actions bring the greatest amount of joy. All of the programs and certifications regarding dementia serve a purpose and are greatly needed, but what is also needed is human interaction, time spent with another person. When my grandmother was in the mid-stages ofContinue reading “Simple Joys”

Her Signature

My Grandma Marie’s signature is on everything I do. Well, you can argue that all of my grandparents and parents have their signature on my life as well, but when looking specifically at dementia, it is my Grandma Marie. My grandma had Vascular Dementia and lived with the disease for 6 1/2 years (a diagnosedContinue reading “Her Signature”