Allison Lazicky from Tom-Notch Teams (the same Allison I did a post for in January about Life is Bluetiful) recently had me on her podcast, Bluetiful…Celebrating Kindness Leaders, produced by the Whole Care Network. It was a first for me, and hopefully the first of many. This podcast is, as the title informs, about Kindness Leaders. What is a Kindness Leader? Allison, through her conversations, answers that question and shows us that they are the very people we spend our day with at work, at home, and in our community. They are the individuals that take their triumphs and trials and use them as a way to transform how they care for others, and by doing so, give us all examples of how to better live in community with each other. Each person shares how they find the bluetiful in everyday life.
During our episode, I speak about TimeSlips and how it has become a launching point to further creativity and relationship development. (I will allow you to listen to the episode to learn more. Follow up questions are encouraged.)
After replaying what was said in my mind a few times, I walked away from this experience wondering, how am I a Kindness Leader? This is not something I label myself as or a role I thought I played. I found myself asking, what is the full depth and width of this role mean to me and the people in my life? What I came up with was this, I see it as another form of being a Beautiful Soul. A beautiful (or bluetiful) soul is one who has gone through the deep trials of life and has come out filled with a light and a spirit far beyond previously imaginable. One that can help guide and inspire others. One that can support and stand with those they love and care for, encouraging beauty and joy, and willing the good of all those they encounter. While I don’t know if I would label myself as a beautiful soul, I would accept the role of Kindness Leader. I have undeniably lived through many things that have hopefully transformed me into becoming a better care partner, a more creative care partner, and someone people know they can come to during triumphs and trials. In my Bluetiful blog post for Allison, and again mentioned in our conversation, I talk about how life is Bluetiful when we are seen and heard for who we truly are and want to become. Individuals that are capable of seeing and hearing this are Kindness Leaders. In my life I have had many kindness leaders guiding me along, standing next to me. Allison is one of them. Thank you, Allison! They have been teachers, parents and grandparents, great aunts and uncles, my brother, classmates, therapists, doctors, fellow employees, peers, church leaders, and dementia care pioneers.
When relating Kindness Leaders to dementia, in order for us to transform the way we think about, look at, and care for those who have dementia we need Kindness Leaders filling positions at every level of care and support. We need the CEOs of our care communities and companies to be Kindness Leaders. We need our charge nurses, care admissions team, medical staff, cleaning staff, activities teams, cooks, and building architects and designers to all be Kindness Leaders. We need individuals who have the wisdom and passion to transform our current care system by having the courage to ask, “What is our ideal care community? What is preventing us from reaching that ideal? What can we do to at least take a step towards that ideal care community?” Kindness Leaders are dreamers and doers. They are individuals who have a better view of the way we care for others than what is currently being exercised. It does not take extensive training or a lot of money. It simply takes a human being who wants the best for fellow human beings.
Thank you, Allison, for having me on your podcast.
To learn more about this podcast and Allison’s work visit the following links:
Top-Notch Teams: https://www.top-notchteams.com
Whole Care Network: https://www.thewholecarenetwork.com
My Blog Post: https://bonaememoriae.blog/2018/01/06/a-bluetiful-life/
My Podcast Episode, Meaningful Life Enrichment in Care Communities Using the Arts: https://www.spreaker.com/user/wholecarenetwork/meaningful-life-enrichment-in-care-commu