For a moment we became a support group in play, showing our humanity and our desire to be in community with others, seen, heard, acknowledged. Our common thread of dementia became just that, a common thread. Not an “issue” to fix or something to try to hide.
To be a successful dementia caregiver we must live in the Both/And. The Both/And of both seeing the person who was, and seeing who the person is now. We cannot make them live fully in the present and we cannot make them become who they were before dementia, and so it becomes a Both/And. ToContinue reading “The Both/And of Caregiving”