Blog Purpose

What is Bonae Memoriae (BON-ay meˈ̯) other than a Latin phrase that we might stumble on when trying to pronounce? It means, “of happy memory.” It is the name of this blog and my mission statement in short.

When working with dementia we are never sure what the person we are sitting next to might be able to recall or what they will remember from our time together. So we approach our visit with great care and creativity, working to make our time joy-filled. If we do this, it will be a happy memory. As the saying goes, “People will not always remember what you said, but they will always remember how you made them feel.”

The purpose of this blog is to be a guide for those who read it. It is not meant to be a medical or mental health resource, but to discuss moments of the dementia journey. Not everything will be founded in scientific research but all will be based on experience, both that of my own and of those I work with who have given me permission to share their story on this public platform. This blog is to serve as a discussion starter, and place to develop our shared story. If you have questions about anything I have posted, or find an inaccuracy, please do not hesitate to contact me directly. This opinions and stories are my own unless otherwise stated. Should something be referenced you will find the proper citation at the bottom of that particular post.

I don’t often have guest authors, however, if you would like to write a post for consideration I will gladly consider your submission. If you would like to share your story of dementia please consider participating in The Dementia Letters Project. You may submit your letter by emailing